Sometimes, I think a soulmate is someone who will make you be the most you that you can possibly be.
I pretty much think this all the time. That is exactly what a soulmate is. Whenever people ask me how to find their perfect match or soul mate, I tell them to find the perfect them they can find. Learn to be their authentic selves, then they’re ideal soulmate will show up.
Meanwhile if you’re faking and trying to be someone you’re not, you’ll only meet imposters and other fakers. Like attracts like.
Our soulmates show up when we’re ready to journey down the path toward self understanding and self awareness. Until then, even if we met our soulmate, we wouldn’t recognize them.
This is exactly what happened to me. I was trying to live a life that just wasn’t fitting to me, and deep down I knew it. But it was the life everyone around me was impressed with. So being young and in my 20’s, I kept forcing myself down this path despite the quiet nudging from my spirit that I was going the wrong way.
Anywho, that’s when I met my best friend. Although he knew right away that we were meant to be, I resisted because it didn’t fit my ideal, at the time, of what I thought my life would look like. This guy kept pushing me toward discovering my artistic side, while my boyfriend at the time encouraged me to suppress it. Artistic was not in my plans, so I ignored everything that felt right.
It wasn’t until I decided to walk down the road of self discovery that I realized the guy I was with was all wrong for me, and my best friend was actually my soulmate. But before I started delving into myself and learning who I really was, I couldn’t really see clear.
Once I began to see myself more clearly, than I could make better decisions that supported my happiness.
So don’t focus solely on finding your soulmate. Find you, and your soulmate will appear.
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